Seven years ago today, we purchased our beloved Wild Rose Farm. As the years went by, we began to dream . . . and made plans to build our Finally Farmhouse.
If you’ve visited My Place in the last few months, you know:
The dream died. We bought another old house in town.
I’ll admit. It’s been a hard adjustment for me. I needed time to put down one dream and try to pick up another.
I don’t pour my heart into things halfway . . .
For the first month we owned our “new” 1908 Victorian, I renovated during the day and returned home to the fifth wheel at the farm at night. But three weeks ago, I went to bed knowing that the next morning I’d wake up and be ready to start moving into our new house—and so we did.
A very few pieces of furniture turned one room into living, sleeping, and office space. Clothes were moved into closets. The pantry was stocked. The refrigerator was, too . . . or at least as much as possible until we can find where we put the shelves when we moved it to storage. 😂
But the house still felt like a stranger.
And so I did the only thing I knew to do.
I kept moving forward.
I pulled a wreath out of storage and hung it on the front door. It was only two weeks until Christmas, after all!
And then I got to work . . . Removing wallpaper. Testing floor oil colors. Making dusty messes!
After a pre-Christmas trip to see the grandsons and their parents—and get loved on for awhile!—we returned home and got back to work on the Master Bedroom. Here’s a reminder of what it looked like when we first saw it.
Real estate listing
This is what we accomplished before leaving for Christmas:
- Wallpaper removed ✅
- Paint removed from floors ✅
As you can see in the real estate listing pic, the door on the right was the entrance to the (horribly-configured) Master Bath. The door on the left was a small closet. Since we want to enter our closets from inside the bathroom, we decided to remove the door on the left.
But when we did, we realized IT was the original entrance between the two rooms. The door on the right was the afterthought. And so we did what every good old house renovator does when they get thrown a curve. We stopped. We looked for more clues. We reworked our bathroom layout.
We reinstalled the door on the left.
It will become our entry into the adjoining room. The one we’ll reconfigure for our Master Bath — but what I believe was almost certainly a nursery when the house was built.
And we removed the door on the right.
And then we started installing recessed panels to dress up the room a bit. Still working on those!
I was beginning to get back in the long-ago groove of renovating an old house. It was comfortable and hard at the same time. Honestly, though, I was going through the motions.
This place that was now my home still felt like a stranger.
And then suddenly it was New Years Eve. The blank slate of 2019 was ahead. I had to make a choice not simply to keep moving forward. That decision had already been made. But I had to choose to move forward intentionally and willfully. Bravely, perhaps, but choosing to embrace this wonderful gift of a house we’ve been provided.
It was time to DIY this place from a house to a HOME.
And so Renaissance Man and I drove out to the farm and brought back the old farm table we’d bought long ago at auction. The one that I hope will sit on our “someday” patio.
It’s rough, but I think it’s beautiful with its two wide boards and the scars of days gone by.
And we set it in the too-empty center of our soon-to-be-renovated (and relocated!) kitchen, surrounded it with card table chairs, and I did my first tablescape in my new house.
And if you look closely, you’ll see holes and mends and fading in that once-gorgeous old tablecloth. You’ll see paper towel napkins because my linens are still packed away.
Me? I see hope and encouragement.
I see God’s gentle promise that everything’s going to be okay. That I can trust him with heartbreak and lost dreams. That He understood when I was angry with Him.
There are no pretty berries at this house, but I found some lacy cedar to add a touch of texture. And, though hours before I had only four plates and not enough glasses, I could now set a table for five — exactly what I needed for the friends coming over for a very impromptu supper. My sweet husband had no idea what was in those boxes he brought from storage.
And even better . . . we had a good laugh about my hole-y tablecloth and paint-splattered table and how they’d “seen better days”. In truth, they were exactly the kind of things I would have used for a “fun” retirement dinner — and our friends were retiring that very day. I have a feeling God chuckled as well, pleased that laughter and hospitality were entering this house along with us.
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Susan, Happy New Year and happy renovations… you are one creative, resourceful lady and I cannot wait to see each and every decision you make to turn this into an even more beautiful home and make it all yours… have patience and soon, very soon, she will not be a stranger but a dear, dear part of YOU!!! 💕👍👍💕 i am so excited to follow along on your new adventure..
Bonnie, you always encourage me! Thank you, friend. This big ol’ gal of a house is still a bit overwhelming, but I feel the excitement beginning to stir. I’m definitely ready to “put my mark” on her, and glad you’ll be coming along on the adventure.
I cannot express how honored we were to be your first guests at that wonderful table! Thank you for always being a place of welcome, celebration and refuge. I know this home is going to reflect your hearts.
The honor was all ours. You know there’s always a place at our table for your family, and we’re counting on you coming back for visits often! I’m working hard to get a room ready for you. 😉
You are dealing with overcoming your lost dream very, very well, Susan. It’s the people who bring the heart to the home. I can see yours is warming up to shed its light on the house. But oh, those obstacles like the two doors (you had a 50-50 chance, right??) can be soooo disheartening. Really looking forward to seeing this progress. And, I’m sure the dead of winter doesn’t help matters at all. Well, maybe it does in its own way….when spring comes, you two will have the added chore of yard work, so at least you can focus wholly on the inside right now.
Thank you for your encouragement, Rita. It’s definitely the people who bring the heart to a home, and we’re certainly throwing ourselves into this ol’ house, so we’ll see what she becomes in time.
It’s so funny… When you mentioned the “obstacle” of the two doors, I had to think about what you meant. We weren’t frustrated in the least when that discovery resulted in backtracking. It was just another day in the life of an old house renovator! We were actually excited to confirm the original entry.
As for timing, yes, it’s nice to be able to knock out some big things inside during the winter. There’s definitely a lot to do outside come spring. I’m already wondering what old plants may surprise us in the next few months. Right now all I see is overgrowth that needs to be cut back or removed!